I am having a drama issue... I need advice. (serious advice please)
11-06-2005 | 07:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Pete
It's not that she had issues. She wanted to be with him but he didn't share the same feelings for her so she moved out. And it's not like I went in to scoop up the rebound either. It wasn't intended to happen, but we just got close.
11-06-2005 | 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted by redgoober4life
THEN why does it matter to him
I think the problem is that I was still seeing her but didn't tell him till tonight. Even still though, he shouldn't be like that if he really doesn't have any feelings left for her.
11-06-2005 | 09:26 PM
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i personally would just cut contact with her (being that i have grown romantic feelings for her). when it comes down to it, my best homie > girl.
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11-06-2005 | 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted by 95SiR
i personally would just cut contact with her (being that i have grown romantic feelings for her). when it comes down to it, my best homie > girl.
11-06-2005 | 10:05 PM
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In the end I lose them both. In a few weeks I will move back to NY. I will probably never talk to him again and she may not even make it to NY. All I will leave with is the pride in knowing that I came clean.
11-07-2005 | 06:58 AM
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u did nothing wrong..your best friend wont talk about it and i dont think his reaction has anything to do with u.. u didnt betray him.. u can only go by what both of them have told u..he has told u what he wants to tell u.. he may not even know the answers.. if u like her then keep in contact...
most relationships/friendships r based on what each person contributes and invests in them. perception and the degree of compromise have some influence also....i dont think u have lost either one of them.
give them both space and time, see what happens..u were upfront with your best friend, u were respectful of both of them..u have done all u can do for the moment..
most relationships/friendships r based on what each person contributes and invests in them. perception and the degree of compromise have some influence also....i dont think u have lost either one of them.
give them both space and time, see what happens..u were upfront with your best friend, u were respectful of both of them..u have done all u can do for the moment..
11-07-2005 | 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Pete
In the end I lose them both. In a few weeks I will move back to NY. I will probably never talk to him again and she may not even make it to NY. All I will leave with is the pride in knowing that I came clean.
If when you move to NY you will never talk to him again, then how good of a friend is he? Sounds like he is more of an aquaintance then :dunno:
If so go for the girl.
11-07-2005 | 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Josh M
1. You were just talking and you liked her and told your friend.............you did nothing wrong and he has no right to get butt hurt
2. As your boy he should say "go for it man" and then is also obligated to mock you for hitting something he already has(see thread fatbooty started about a girl)
3. Tell your man to grow a pair, there are plenty of girls out there and if you really like her he should back you up.
2. As your boy he should say "go for it man" and then is also obligated to mock you for hitting something he already has(see thread fatbooty started about a girl)
3. Tell your man to grow a pair, there are plenty of girls out there and if you really like her he should back you up.
My one really good friend started dating my other really good friend's ex. My friend who did her first told him "Go for it".
Once you've broken up with somebody, you have no right to get butthurt about somebody else going out with her, friend or not. That's just common sense.
